As
one gets older, the significance of birthdays dwindles. I know. I’ve marked the yearly count for 59 years. What brought joy to my heart were the loving gestures of my family and countless friends. Life is a journey that finds meaning in the people we meet along the way.
When
I was about to write this piece, I stumbled upon a Facebook posting of Steve
Job’s Last Words. We know how Jobs
changed the world with his ideas of products that peoples of the world can’t
live without. His life, as he admitted
and many cannot argue, was “an epitome of success.”
The
Apple co-founder was a year older than I, and I’ve followed his career from the
beginning until his untimely death. Many
of us would want to follow his footsteps; yet we may not realize that the greatest
reward we can attain in life is just in our midst and not in a high position, not
in a bank account, not in possessions.
Let
us listen to the late Steve Jobs:
I
reached the pinnacle of success in the business world.
In
others’ eyes, my life is an epitome of success.
However,
aside from work, I have little joy. In the end, wealth is only a fact of life
that I am accustomed to.
At
this moment, lying on the sick bed and recalling my whole life, I realize that
all the recognition and wealth that I took so much pride in, have paled and
become meaningless in the face of impending death.
In
the darkness, I look at the green lights from the life supporting machines and
hear the humming mechanical sounds, I can feel the breath of god of death
drawing closer…
Now
I know, when we have accumulated sufficient wealth to last our lifetime, we
should pursue other matters that are unrelated to wealth…
Should
be something that is more important:
Perhaps
relationships, perhaps art, perhaps a dream from younger days ...
Non-stop
pursuing of wealth will only turn a person into a twisted being, just like me.
God
gave us the senses to let us feel the love in everyone’s heart, not the
illusions brought about by wealth.
The
wealth I have won in my life I cannot bring with me.
What
I can bring is only the memories precipitated by love.
That’s
the true riches which will follow you, accompany you, giving you strength and
light to go on.
Love
can travel a thousand miles. Life has no limit. Go where you want to go. Reach
the height you want to reach. It is all in your heart and in your hands.
What
is the most expensive bed in the world? - "Sick bed" …
You
can employ someone to drive the car for you, make money for you but you cannot
have someone to bear the sickness for you.
Material
things lost can be found. But there is one thing that can never be found when
it is lost – "Life".
When
a person goes into the operating room, he will realize that there is one book
that he has yet to finish reading – "Book of Healthy Life".
Whichever
stage in life we are at right now, with time, we will face the day when the
curtain comes down.
Treasure
Love for your family, love for your spouse, love for your friends...
Treat
yourself well.
Cherish
others.